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JUST
A THOUGHT
May 2012
Is the truth out
there?
There are no simple answers
The whole world seems to be in a chaotic state. The ceaseless flow of information does not make
it easier to understand what is happening in different parts of the world. What information and what sources of information
should we trust?
African countries seem to be full of political and armed conflicts. Should we blame
tribal traditions in Africa or European colonialism for such developments? Who should we support in each
of these conflicts? And for what reasons?
China and India are struggling
to figure out what it means, socially and politically, to be the new economic powers of the world.
What should
they prioritize; economic growth, human rights, health and safety of their work force, commitment to environmental concerns,
or political power?
There are no simple answers to these questions. The problems
cannot be solved or dissolved by means of mathematical calculations, since the problems do not have single correct answers.
Yet another example; Europe and many other parts of the world are struggling with recession. Which one is
the right remedy, austerity or economic growth?
Of course, the advocates
of austerity do not deny the need of economic growth, and the advocates of economic growth do not deny the need to reduce
the budget deficit. But the starting point in their argumentation is different.
Governments in several countries have difficulties in convincing their audiences that one or the other of
these approaches is the right course of action. In several countries, in France, for example, elections are fought in the
name of austerity and economic growth.
Once again, there are no simple answers, and the problems
cannot be solved and dissolved by means of mathematical calculations.
Facts, truths,
and lies
We can select some economic or social parameters and subject them to mathematical calculations
based on some particular model.
We can use the outcomes of such calculations as ‘facts’ and claim that
they point at one particular direction. For some people, such facts are equal to ‘truths’.
People
sometimes talk about lying with statistics, but strictly speaking statistical information is not based on lies.
Instead, gathering statistical information is based on some underlying assumptions, and these assumptions
already point at some direction. Assumptions are based on our values.The same goes for mathematical models applied to human
societies.
In other words, each calculation is true in the sense that the calculation procedure leads to a correct answers
(unless mistakes are made in the processing of information for the calculations!). But no single calculation can take into
account all potential assumptions and values.
But if we wish to defend our opinion and cannot
claim that our ‘opponent’ is lying, what can we do?
This is what we can do: It is
always possible to argue against our opponent and his or her ‘facts’ by referring to another set of assumptions,
or by referring to calculated ‘facts’ based on another set of assumptions.
Does
economic growth necessarily harm the environment?
Not all advocates of austerity are neoconservatives,
wishing to get rid of most of the public sector and state involvement in society.
There are also those,
who see in austerity an opportunity to put a stop to economic growth. These advocates of austerity understand economic growth
as equal to unnecessary or excess consumption, which, in turn, they see as a threat to the environment by escalating climate
change.
It is true that for some people economic growth is the end in itself. Every (presumed)
obstacle to economic growth should be removed; out with health and safety regulations, out with regulations protecting the
environment, etc.
But economic growth may as well be seen as means to an end. It may mean sustainable
production and consumption. Such an approach suggests that we should be investing in new (renewable) sources of energy.
It suggests that we should be producing clothes, food, goods, etc, based on organic or recyclable materials.
It may even suggest that by investing in sustainable production, many will find new employment opportunities within fields
where they can do something they believe in.
After all, we will not
stop eating, or using clothes, shoes, or living in houses, studying and working in buildings, walking and driving on roads,
or travelling...
All these activities demand innovations and production, and contribute to economic
growth.
Thus, if we so decide, economic growth will be sustainable growth instead of being
growth that harms the environment.
What do we value?
If there is no single
truth, or single correct answer, how are we then supposed to decide what political parties, or what movements to support?
And how are we supposed to decide what courses of action in our own private lives to prefer and select?
We live in a complex world, and it is preferable that our decisions are based on knowledge-based information.
Unfortunately, knowledge-based information as such cannot decide for us. We need to relate knowledge-based information
to our profound values.
I think it’s time we all paused to think of what our profound values truly are.
What kind of society do we wish to live in, and what kind of society will the next generations
inherit from us?
Every decision and choice is based on some underlying assumption. Assumptions, in turn,
are based on values.
Values may
refer to human life in general, to our outlook on life, to our attitudes towards other human beings and to their right to
be different from us, to our attitudes to various kinds of activities taking place in society, from education to business,
from arts to food and tools.
In other words, before deciding anything, we need to reflect upon our
own values.
If we don’t seem to have any values,
we need to continue to reflect upon all kinds of values, until we find the values with which we can live.
April 2012
From Dinners for Donors to Health and Safety
Dinners for donors, VAT on warm pasties, imagined petrol-shortage
panic, and the come-back of George Galloway in Bradford by-election. These are the latest themes in Britain. At least they
are according to the media reporting.
Funding of
Political Parties
Dinners for donors refers to what the Conservative party treasurer had told to some
reporters, namely that a ‘premier league’ donors would win a dinner in Downing Street.
Personally,
I’m not as bothered about who is and who is not invited for dinner (or supper) at Downing Street as I am about the funding
of political parties in Britain.
All parties have to find their own donors. This takes time, money, and energy.
It is also hard to believe that a person or an organization who donates hundreds of thousands to a political party (in government)
would not expect one or the other form of favours.
Public funding would assure
that all parties, large and small, can carry out political work. In a radio programme someone expressed an opinion against
public funding, because it would mean that also BNP would be funded by the tax-payer, and because a Tory-voter would be forced
to finance the Labour Party, and vice versa.
I would like to remind those who share such an opinion,
that a political system is not a market place. In a democracy, there must be opportunities for both established and new and
small parties to promote their political views to a broader audience than to family-members and neighbours.
We
do not have to like all the political parties, who would receive public funding. It will not harm us to hear political views
we do not approve of. We can always argue against them. And, we do not have to vote for them!
Warm
pasties and millionaires
The ‘nation of
shop-keepers’ was certainly not pleased when they learned that in the latest budget the most wealthy in the country
will receive tax cuts, whereas the ‘little man’ selling (warm) pasties will be punished with VAT.
The positive and/or negative impact of tax cuts and added VAT here and there
on economy are difficult to judge, but in the minds of people, the budget did not sound fair.
The Chancellor has
lost his narrative. Next time he says (if he dares) ‘we are all in this together’, people will not believe him.
Health and Safety
The media reporting on the potential tank drivers’ strike and on the advice given to people
(to store petrol at home) by a Cabinet office minister have focused on the unnecessarily created panic to store petrol, and
thereby following shortage of petrol.
Very little has been said about the reasons for the potential strike amongst
tank drivers. The drivers are not asking for better salaries, but wish to improve health and safety measures in their working
environment.
When
there is a pressure to cut costs, health and safety suffer. Untrained or under-trained agency workers are brought in to do
a dangerous job (to a lower cost), risking both their own lives and the lives of others. Driving a tank as well as loading
and unloading fuel, demand good training.
Health and safety are
serious matters, although they are often ridiculed by people. I’m afraid the problems stressed by the tank drivers,
are no isolated problems.
There will be more problems coming in the near future related to neglected health and
safety issues.Boring Facts-page on this website deals with health and safety issues,
especially related to Accidents at work.
Voters wish to be offered hope
George Galloway won the Bradford by-election,
attracting first-time voters as well as previous Labour, Liberal, and Conservative voters. Galloway calls himself an honest
man who says what he means and means what he says. Hmmm, pretending to be a Muslim (without explicitly saying so) is not so
honest.
Galloway made promises (more jobs, no tuition fees, get our boys out of Afghanistan, and
so on) he knows he cannot keep, since he has no political power to do so. But let us hope that he at least makes an attempt
to keep them.
And, yet, it is these promises people desperately wanted to hear. Such promises give
hope in these austerity times.
The true challenge for the established political parties is to create a narrative
full of hope (in which they themselves believe) and combine it with political realism. Not an easy task!
March 2012
Change is difficult
Change is always difficult. Change is especially difficult when it is forced upon us.
Change is not easy for an individual who is expected to change his or her habits due to health reasons.
Change is not easy for a dictator or a dictatorial leader who refuges to admit that his time in power is over.
Change is not easy for a nation who needs to change its life-style.
C.G. Jung once wrote that only a necessity can make the conservative individual wish to change.
Thus, an individual with health problems needs
to weight health concerns against some harmful but pleasurable habits. Potentially, he or she also needs to weight the expectations
of other family members against own ‘yearnings’.
Usually, the fear of change is bigger
than the steps towards change. It is not unusual that the first steps towards change are preceded by anger and aggression.
Change cannot take place until it has been internalized, accepted, and analysed.
A dictator or a dictatorial leader fears the future without
power. Admittedly, a dictator may also fear the fury of the population.
In Syria, the President Bashar al-Assad,
refuges to leave, and the evidence of what happened to the dictatorial leaders of neighbouring countries is not helping him
to change his mind.
In Egypt and in Libya people are slowly learning new ways of doing things, yet the
progress is slow, and it is easy to go back to old ways of doing things, when there are no explicit signs of progress.
The only option a dictatorial leader sees in front of him is fighting and winning, killing everyone
who opposes his reign. It is a very irrational reaction based on a mixture of fear, anxiety, and anger.
In Greece, a whole nation is forced to change its life-style.
Austerity measures hit hard and at least during the first years have a paralysing effect on economy.
However,
I believe that the protests have been as much the results of the fear of change in life-style. When the change in life-style
is internalised in the minds of each individual Greek, the economy will start growing once again.
Let’s hope that there will soon be peaceful developments everywhere in the world.
If you wish to read all previous Just A Thought contributions, , from 2010
to 2012 click the links below.
2011 Just A Thought
2010 Just A Thought
2012 Just a Thought
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18/05/2012
During the last 10 days the visitors to Aspasia European’s website came from the following countries (top 6 countries
first):
1. USA (California in the lead now!)
2.
Russia
3. Great Britain
4. China
5. France
6. Japan
And
from the following countries in an alphabetical order:
Australia, Belarus, Canada, EU*, Germany, India, Ireland, Italy, Kuwait, Mauritius, Netherlands, Poland,
Saudi Arabia, South Korea, Switzerland, Thailand, Ukraine, and Vanuatu (and from 12 ‘unresolved’
countries).
EU* obviously refers to EU e-mail addresses (thus, very likely to come from Belgium).
There were surprisingly many 'unresolved' visitor- countries this time.
The
USA is still leading, and the visitors came from 10 different US states. California has taken the lead now,
followed by Washington. Russia is well-positioned as the second country, and there were more
visitors from Russia than from any individual US state. Japan took the sixth place this time. Some new countries were in the
list, as well.
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